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Bar News - January 15, 2014

In Memoriam: Thomas Minot Dudley

Thomas Minot Dudley, 83, of Durham, NH, died in the company of his family on Dec. 26, 2013.

Born March 14, 1930, in Boston, Tom was the son of Dr. Thomas Minot Dudley and Dorothy Gale Dudley of Concord, NH. He was a direct descendant of Thomas Dudley, the first governor of the Massachusetts Bay Colony and a founder of Harvard College.

Tom graduated from Phillips Academy, Andover, Dartmouth College, and the University of Virginia Law School. He practiced family law in Portsmouth, with his friend and partner David Sanderson. Tom encouraged families to focus on maintaining relationships above the details of dividing estates. If he knew a bill would be a hardship for a client, he never sent one.

Tom’s philosophy in divorce cases – to focus on the best interests of children – allowed many families to remain on good terms long after the marriage had ended. Tom loved children, and brought out the best in others, practicing mediation before there was a word for it.

Sailing was Tom’s lifelong passion, spanning 74 years, beginning with his first lesson at Camp Chewonki in Wiscasset, Maine. Tom cherished time spent on the water in good company. He raced, often single-handed, and while he loved winning, he never took the competition too seriously.

Tom enjoyed navigating by the stars and adjusting to changes in the weather. Among his many adventures, Tom sailed from Norway to Portugal aboard the Norwegian tall ship Sorlandet, and cruised in Greece, the Caribbean, and the Bahamas. He made several round trips from Maine to Bermuda, and sailed through the Panama Canal on his way from Costa Rica to Florida. He traveled aboard the Russian ship Professor Khromov from Argentina to South Africa, stopping along the way to pour rum on Sir Ernest Shackleton’s grave in Grytviken, South Georgia.

For the past 15 years, Tom spent nearly every afternoon with his granddaughter, Lauren Dudley Hallett, teaching her to sail, reading, singing and talking. They adored one another. His enjoyment of music, art and literature; his delight in conversation, humor and friendship; and his appreciation of nature were contagious. Tom loved life.

Tom is survived by his wife of 57 years, Dudley Webster Dudley, his daughter, Morgan, and her husband Ted Naughton, and granddaughter Lauren of Durham, NH, his daughter, Rebecca, and her husband John Mohr of Evanston, Ill, his sister-in-law Susan Otis Dudley of Rye, NH, brother-in-law Robert Gideon Webster and his wife Els Mouwen of Portsmouth, NH, his brother Peter Hubbard Dudley, and his nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his brother Richard Hamilton Dudley of Rye, NH.

Gosport Harbor at the Isles of Shoals provided safe harbor to Tom from April to November for over 50 years. Memorial contributions to Star Island are welcome, and may be sent to The Star Island Corporation, 30 Middle Street, Portsmouth, NH 03801.

In honor of our colleague, Thomas Minot Dudley, the NH Bar Association Board of Governors has made a donation to the NH Bar Foundation, 2 Pillsbury Street, Concord, NH 03301.

Supreme Court Rule 42(9) requires all NH admitted attorneys to notify the Bar Association of any address change, home or office.

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